Much of the day-to-day responsibility for supporting people’s health and wellbeing at work falls on line managers. They are responsible for implementing the policies and workplace adjustments that can help people to balance work responsibilities with challenging personal and health issues. A line manager will typically be the first point of contact if someone needs to discuss their diagnosis and health needs. It’s therefore essential that managers are knowledgeable about the organisation’s framework for supporting people with a terminal illness.
The role of line managers is to offer compassionate support and not solutions. Line managers cannot be experts on the issue, or act as counsellors. Their role is to help employees with the work aspects of the situation and ensure that work is not part of the problem. Organisations should ensure that line managers understand the boundaries of their role, as well as when and how to make helpful adjustments and signpost people to specialist support where needed.
Having someone in their team who is terminally ill can take a toll on a manager. Some employees with a terminal diagnosis could understandably show significant emotional distress, including anger and tearfulness. While this reaction is only to be expected, it could be very challenging for a line manager to deal with. Therefore, it’s important managers know they can also ask for help and support, and HR should provide effective signposting for them.
People professionals should ensure that managers:
- are trained in the organisation’s framework and policies relating to health and wellbeing and terminal illness
- feel confident, comfortable and competent to have empathetic conversations about sensitive and complex issues like terminal illness
- understand how to respond to an employee who shares health information about a terminal illness and what actions to take as well as the specific support and policies available
- develop a basic knowledge of the progressive illness that the employee has been diagnosed with – not so that they are expected to play a medical role or give advice, but so that they can have a broad understanding of the condition’s likely impact and what adjustments may help
- understand how to maintain clear boundaries – they need to be clear on what their role is and isn’t when supporting a colleague with a terminal illness
- have ready access to appropriate support for their own health and wellbeing needs, and know where to turn if they feel unable to effectively support a team member and/or they find the situation triggering
- can access training at the point of need (instead of trying to recall a one-off training event they attended a year ago)
- be knowledgeable about the organisation’s wellbeing services, absence management framework, leave provision and benefits
- are confident to signpost to expert sources of support, such as OH, EAP, external support charities or medical services.
Managers will need easy access to practical advice and tools to help them manage someone with a terminal illness in real time, rather than relying on a one-off training event. It could be helpful to provide guidance for line managers, such as a checklist of different activities to carry out at specific times, as well as helpful prompts on when and how to have sensitive conversations with people.
Some line managers may not feel equipped to support someone from a wellbeing perspective. The employee may also want to have a conversation or seek support from someone in addition or as an alternative to their line manager. Your policy and/or guidance should offer other named contacts, such as HR.
Managing and supporting someone with a terminal illness can be complex and also affect the wider team in terms of work responsibilities as well as have an emotional impact on some team members. There could be potential conflict even if they don’t know about someone’s diagnosis, so managers should be prepared to deal with any wider impact. They could also need support themselves, so make sure you promote the wellbeing services available, as well as a named HR contact who has the expertise to advise on cases involving terminal illness.