It’s important that you have a clear and positive intention for having conversations about race. Ensure that you have created a psychologically safe space, where both you and your colleague feel safe and that mutual trust has been created, as well as an overall organisation culture that is inclusive. Where there’s psychological safety, there’s a sense of dependability on one another.
To create a psychologically safe space you should be willing to be vulnerable, to admit to your own mistakes and failures, and frame these as learnings. For example, you might say: ‘Don’t write me off. I want to learn. I appreciate your patience with me’, or ‘I hadn’t thought about it that way.’
In addition, when you notice it, publicly praise others for giving feedback, and be willing to step in if you hear a teammate talking negatively about another teammate.
Curiosity and good listening skills are key to creating psychological safety, asking these questions could start the conversation:
- How do you feel we as an organisation have responded to the increased awareness of the issues of racial discrimination?
- How has your racial identity affected your experience as an employee here?
- As a line manager from a different ethnic group, how could I be a better manager to you?